1. You’ve Been Psychologically Conditioned To Want a Diamond
The diamond engagement ring is a 63-year-old invention of N.W.Ayer advertising agency. The De Beers diamond cartel contracted N.W.Ayer to create a demand for what are, essentially, useless hunks of rock.
2. Diamonds are Priced Well Above Their Value
The De Beers cartel has systematically held diamond prices at levels far greater than their abundance would generate under anything even remotely resembling perfect competition. All diamonds not already under its control are bought by the cartel, and then the De Beers cartel carefully managed world diamond supply in order to keep prices steadily high.
3. Diamonds Have No Resale or Investment Value
Any diamond that you buy or receive will indeed be yours forever: De Beers™ advertising deliberately brain-washed women not to sell; the steady price is a tool to prevent speculation in diamonds; and no dealer will buy a diamond from you. You can only sell it at a diamond purchasing center or a pawn shop where you will receive a tiny fraction of its original “value.”
4. Diamond Miners are Disproportionately Exposed to HIV/AIDS
Many diamond mining camps enforce all-male, no-family rules. Men contract HIV/AIDS from camp sex-workers, while women married to miners have no access to employment, no income outside of their husbands and no bargaining power for negotiating safe sex, and thus are at extremely high risk of contracting HIV.
5. Open-Pit Diamond Mines Pose Environmental Threats
Diamond mines are open pits where salts, heavy minerals, organisms, oil, and chemicals from mining equipment freely leach into ground-water, endangering people in nearby mining camps and villages, as well as downstream plants and animals.
6. Diamond Mine-Owners Violate Indigenous People’s Rights
Diamond mines in Australia, Canada, India and many countries in Africa are situated on lands traditionally associated with indigenous peoples. Many of these communities have been displaced, while others remain, often at great cost to their health, livelihoods and traditional cultures.
7. Slave Laborers Cut and Polish Diamonds
More than one-half of the world’s diamonds are processed in India where many of the cutters and polishers are bonded child laborers. Bonded children work to pay off the debts of their relatives, often unsuccessfully. When they reach adulthood their debt is passed on to their younger siblings or to their own children.
8. Conflict Diamonds Fund Civil Wars in Africa
There is no reliable way to insure that your diamond was not mined or stolen by government or rebel military forces in order to finance civil conflict. Conflict diamonds are traded either for guns or for cash to pay and feed soldiers.
9. Diamond Wars are Fought Using Child Warriors
Many diamond producing governments and rebel forces use children as soldiers, laborers in military camps, and sex slaves. Child soldiers are given drugs to overcome their fear and reluctance to participate in atrocities.
10. Small Arms Trade is Intimately Related to Diamond Smuggling
Illicit diamonds inflame the clandestine trade of small arms. There are 500 billion small arms in the world today which are used to kill 500,000 people annually, the vast majority of whom are non-combatants.
Diamonds are the worst.
My mother is actually disappointed in me for not wanting a diamond ring.
All of my relatives think there’s something wrong with me and that I’m being “selfish.” Selfish.
I’ve posted this before, but posting again as a reminder.
And gold? Also pretty terrible.
My engagement ring is a moonstone. As a witch, moonstone is something that means a great deal to me, so it’s WAY better than a diamond.
The only diamond ring we have is a family heirloom my mom gave me.
I am an amateur geologist and mineralogist as is my father, and we are both what are colloquially known as ‘rockhounds’. Basically we’re overgrown kids who putter around in old quarries and road cuts for rock, fossil and mineral samples.
In addition to spending my formative years surrounded by rocks, minerals, and fossils I spent several years working in the jewelry industry for two local jewelers.
DeBeers is an illegal monopoly that has inflated the value of a geologically fascinating and industrially useful mineral to untold heights. DeBeers, who factor literally 80% of the jewelry grade diamond, has on hand at any point enough product to GIVE every person and child on the planet a one carat of larger VSI diamond with good color.
DeBeers has spent an awful lot of time and money on their campaign to distance themselves from Conflict Diamonds, but the truth of the matter is that they cannot account for the provenance of most of their stones. Even the one’s that are produced from their own mines are produced under some truly awful working conditions.
There is no such thing as an ‘ethical’ diamond (except maybe for the world’s only open to the public diamond mine in Murfreesboro, Arkansas which is low producing and kinda a fun tourist trap) Anyone who tells you otherwise is trying to assuage your guilt in order to sell you something.
So glad I’ve never been a big jewelry girl and stuck to costume stuff. This is awful.